Stop listening to anybody but yourself.
and makes your sense complete
only if you know where you want to go.
It all falls down from there.
Don't worry about the middle.
Secret sauce measurement: To be enjoying the process = How much in tune with your wants and needs are you? The answer: you can only truly know for yourself in yourself. Do it for you, expect 0 from and don't listen to anybody other than you about you. Why this? Do and enjoy YOUR process.